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We have found one of the nicest things about the swinging lifestyle we lead is that we get to meet genuine people who can relate to us and understand our way of life and share the same views. Most of the people we have met over the years have remained and will always be very good friends, who we meet both socially and within the swinging scene.
Here are a few tips and advice on general chat room etiquette and swinging etiquette that could help you meet the right kind of people and benefit from this site. After all, the majority of people that come into these kinds of rooms are ultimately looking to meet up with people and enjoy good fun. Chat room
1. Always be respectful to other people in the chat room and remember to always be polite. Being disrespectful just alienates you and you will soon find that no one will talk to you.
2. If someone is disrespectful to you, the best way to handle it is to ignore them, your instinct will be to retaliate, but this is just what they want. Some people come into chat rooms just to annoy other people; if everyone ignores them they will soon get bored and go somewhere else. That is of course if they don’t get kicked from chat first!! THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOUR WILL NOT BE TOLERATED.
3. Be friendly with people, ask them how they are and try and strike up a conversation with someone you want to talk to, if they ignore you or seem preoccupied its best to leave it and try again another time, they may well be chatting to someone else in PM.
4. Don’t make a nuisance of yourself - all the people in the room are there to chat, be naughty if they wish and enjoy the banter with other users. If someone decides to play on cam its usually because they like to be watched, however, this doesn’t mean that they want to be told what to do, after all they are doing it for their pleasure and are not on their just for yours. Our advice would be don’t say things like ‘get yer tits out’, you are much more likely to get a response if you tell them how good they look etc. and if someone likes being watched, sit back and enjoy it and join in too, they may decide to look at your cam.
Couples & Females
You must be prepared to accept the fact that you will have many approaches from single guys on a swingers site like this. Some will be respectful and you will soon make friends with them even though you may not play with single guys.
Others may be more persistent, if you find you are being harassed or you feel that someone’s behaviour is inappropriate ask them to stop what they are doing, if this fails then either let one of our moderators know if available or contact us a
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Tips for Single Guys
Single guys will probably find it the hardest to interact with others, simple because there are so many of you willing to get involved in the swinging scene and unfortunately the few bad apples make it hard for the genuine guys to be taken seriously. To be successful you need to follow some simple guidelines that will get people talking to you and hopefully lead to some successful meets.
1. As with above always always be polite.
2. Asking people to look at your cam so they can see you ‘wanking’ is also not a good idea. If you are hoping to meet up with couples, it is far better to strike up a conversation first. If you click and they wish to watch you on cam then that would be the time to do it. Some guys come into these rooms just for self satisfaction and I promise you that the chances are they will never get to meet up with others.
3. Try and join in the with the chat and banter in the room, chat with everyone. People will soon get to know you.
4 Don’t be pushy, if you are engaged in a conversation with a couple for example, don’t start making demands about seeing more of them or requesting pictures. Take the lead from them, chat, have a laugh, get to know them, be open and honest about your experiences, and hopefully you will get to make good friends and this may well lead to a meet.
5. Finally guys, the people in the room are there for THEIR enjoyment, not necessarily for yours, enjoy watching the cam’s but please please try and make sure your webcam is also switched on, people like to see who they are talking to it goes a long way to taking things to the next stage if they can see you, from experience I can tell you that you can learn a lot from seeing someone on cam while chatting, and I don’t mean their genitalia, I mean their face!
Finally the people on this site are genuine UK swingers, who have a very liberal attitude towards life and sex, which should be enjoyed and not abused!
We hope that these tips can help you achieve all you can out of this site and hope you all get to make friends and hopefully meet up with naughty sexy peeps!!
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