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A good starting point when you are considering swinging is to search the internet for a good swingers site where you can place an Ad and ideally has a good chat room for you to interact with others. When placing an Ad there are several things which will help attract other swingers to you. Think about the type of advert you would reply to and create yours with that in mind. Never type in CAPITALS, most people who use computers consider this as SHOUTING and rude, it can also be difficult to read. Also make sure that you use good grammar and keep spelling mistakes to a minimum, take some time over it what people read is what is going to make the impression about you.Try to include as much details about yourselves as possible, most sites will provide you with the questions, try to answer them as honestly as possible, people will want to know your age, body type and your sexual interests and fantasies. Also try and include a face picture on your profile. Whilst it isn’t always possible, having a picture really helps people because they get a feel for the person/people they are reading about, even if you have to scroll part of your face out. Ads with pictures receive the most replies. That said keep your main picture as a face picture, pictures of genitals or breast shots, don’t reveal much about you and could be of anyone! When someone contacts you through the Ad take time to check out their profile and if you are not interested always reply even if it is simple ‘no thanks’. Honesty is very important in the swinging world, try to be honest about your profile and honest with the people who contact you. It goes a long way. If you find an Ad that you want to reply to take time to read their profile properly and word your reply accordingly. Explain briefly who you are and maybe what your common interests are. Once contact has been made arrange to meet in the chat room to talk further and get to know each other a little. If you click and both parties agree to meet, then and only then should you disclose your phone number. It is always a good ice breaker to chat to potential meets on the phone first, it puts everyone at ease knowing they are not dealing with time wasters. Finally when the time has come to meet, go out, get to know each other and most of all have fun! |
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